If there is actually such a thing as true love, then why do we sometimes feel the need to fight with our soulmates? I believe it’s simply because humans are somewhat intuitively aware that conflict usually brings people closer together, after the venting is all over with and the dust finally settles. It feels very good to me (just not very often the case) to apologize for my own individual part of a viciously spontaneous and hurtful argument with my mate, even if I know I was not at all in the wrong to ever have said/suggested the very things I did at the time.
In a nutshell, it feels very good to simply enjoy the overall experience of forgiving and forgetting, while also feeling the rush of being challenged to try not to screw things up all over once again during this occasionally/inevitably/eventually unavoidable process. This is perfectly normal, even among two individuals who are seemingly meant for each other.
Here’s a friendly word of advice for the other guys out there who have already made the exact same mistake(s) I have among the past. If you ever happen to come to the sudden realization that it is indeed too late to ever be able to possibly resolve what will always be known as your final conflict with your now/new, always to be considered your former mate in life forevermore, there is still one remaining way of rectifying this particularly troublesome situation, at least for your own self anyway…
Simply say it with flowers. Adieu, Mon Cheri. ꧁꧁꧂꧂
My very own little golden book for adults. 